Sunday, November 25, 2007

that thing you do...

"People play games as a substitute for real intimacy, an every game, however unpleasent, has a particular payoff for one or both players." Games People Play (1964) Eric Berne.

i'll let you think you win because i know you play only to win. and sometimes it is just better that way because i know too much cortisol could lead to cancer build up. this tactic is called strategic avoidance. a walkover doesn't mean i lose, it just means i am more aware of my strengths and weaknesses and i refuse to be a victim of something much more bigger that your ego. mine is much bigger and if that makes me a selfish bastard than i am.

proud to be a selfish bastard.

keep sane with much love always,

jahatamyemeelea

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